Joining the military is an admirable career choice. What better example of a parent is there than one who holds the line for their country?  Not only does it provide the insight to give your child the structure that they need to succeed in life, but it's also a reliable source of income.  

However, kids may have a difficult time accepting the fact that their parents have to deploy. Keeping in touch with parents is a major source of concern for many children In military families. It's easy for children to feel disconnected and depressed when their parent goes away. However, it's possible to help your child cope with your deployment by following these tips.

Communicate  

Regardless of how young your child is, it helps to communicate with them about the deployment before it happens. Talk to your children about why you're going to be going away and how long it will be. If they get angry or upset, explain to them that it is a part of the job.  

In some cases, a child may believe that they did something wrong, and that the reason you’re leaving as a result of their behavior. Make sure that you use the right language to help them understand that this isn't the case at all.

Spend Quality Time  

Before you leave, it's important that you make the most out of the time that you currently have.  Make an effort to spend one on one time with your child doing activities that you both love.  

If you have multiple children, then you should set aside time for each one individually. Whether it's playing board games together or simply hanging out and watching movies, the important thing is showing them that you value spending time with them.

Stay In Touch  

When you're away, it's important that you make an effort to keep in touch with your child as much as possible. Send photos and videos whenever you can.  

If you are going to be deployed to a place where communication back home will be difficult, then you should consider pre-recording yourself before deployment. Record yourself talking, singing a song, or even reading a book. Your children will feel that much closer to you when they see the recordings.

Don’t Forget Important Dates  

If you happen to be away during a time when one of your family members is celebrating a birthday, then it's important that you acknowledge the date. Don't forget to send a card or call to show them that you care. Acknowledging important events reassures your kids that you still care, and you have not forgotten them even though you are physically absent.