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Beginner Sex Toys For Men You Should Definitely Try

Note: content in this post may be NSFW.

There was a time we would walk into the sex toy store and had to search long and hard to find anything remotely interesting for men. But that time is long gone. Now we have a plethora of choices, designs, and innovations to spice up sex play with our partners as well as our solo actions.  

Not only has the number of choices increased lately, but sex toy sales have also skyrocketed in the past year and brands like shanes world make it far easier for men to discreetly find online what they are looking for to spice up their sex lives. Many brands even report growth of 200 percent in sales. But, hey, what else is there to do when we’re locked up alone or with our partner for days on end? 

All in all, if you haven’t stocked up your sex toys drawer in 2020, this is your year. Let’s check out some of the best we can find in this day and age.  

 

Cock Rings 

Cock rings are great when you’re about to enter the realm of male sex toys for the first time and don’t know where to start. There are many types of rings to check out. But, roughly divided, we can find simple, silicone rings and vibrating rings.

 

Silicone Rings 

Sometimes we just want something that doesn’t require batteries or a charger, and that’s where silicone cock rings come in. These minimalist rings enhance masturbation and prolong playtime before orgasm. The concept of enjoying bondage may seem straightforward at first glance, however there is a lot more to it than meets the eye, read these tips. Furthermore, we can use them as some sort of bumper to prevent thrusting too deep during penetrating sex.  

There are also more advanced rings for guys that are feeling a bit adventurous. Called slings, these toys have an additional ball stretching ring. Added pressure around the base of testicles can provide excellent stimulation.

  

Vibrating Rings 

Vibrations add a lot to the whole experience, especially if you are with a partner. As Zachary Zane, a sex writer for Men’s Health said: No matter how good you are in bed, you can’t vibrate.  

Vibrating cock rings restrict blood flow to the shaft and produce a pleasurable rumble near the ballsack. Also, the partner will feel vibrations on their body. There are even cock rings that we can connect to a smartphone app and share control over it with up to ten other people.  

All in all, cock rings are a classic and interesting toy to start with.

  

Strokers And Masturbators 

Strokers are generally designed for masturbation and make for a good beginner toy as well. As long as we clean them with soap and water after climaxing, they can last for years.  

There’s a wide range of strokers we can choose from. We can start from simple ones that are under 10 bucks, such as the Egg or the famous Fleshlight. Some strokers offer a realistic mouth feel, others have open ends and different textures. However, the cheaper ones are usually manual, meaning, we have to do all the hard work. However, if you want to lie back and pleasure yourself without any effort, you could use hands free blowjob machines that do all the hard work for you.

Then again, we can opt instead for pricier ones with vibrating or heating features and smartphone apps. There are even machines with multiple orifices that can stimulate any kind of sex we want.

 

Penis Sleeves 

Penis sleeves can be a great toy for both us and our partners. Sleeves are like wearable dildos and they can increase length and girth. Furthermore, these toys can help us keep going even when our mood drops, and some of them even come with a vibration feature. And since they come with a textured exterior, the partner will receive a great amount of stimulation too.

 

Prostate Toys 

For lads that are looking for a more intense experience, we definitely recommend trying prostate play. The P-spot can give you a whole ‘nother level of orgasm - it’s deeper, more filling, and when combined with regular orgasm, the entire experience feels like out of this world. 

Prostate toys can be simple non-vibrating wands with a special shape and design to help us reach the P-spot and provide a firm, targeted pressure. Also, there are endless dildos to consider, simple, beaded, etc., all made to hit the P-spot.  

There are high-tech prostate massagers with vibrating features and smartphone apps as well. We can share the app with up to 10 people around the world for the ultimate prostate play. 

 

Anal Toys 

Prostate toys are similar but not exactly the same as anal toys. Yes, they go into the same place, however, there are some key differences between anal and prostate toys. For example, prostate toys have that special curb made to hit the P-spot. On the other hand, anal toys are anatomically designed to target different areas.  

 

Anal Plugs 

There’s a huge variety of anal plugs we can try. With all those different sizes, shapes, textures, and features, we can undoubtedly find the one that will suit our needs and desires. For beginners, there are anal education sets that come with enema kits, lubes, and beginner plugs. For advanced users, why not add a butt plug tail to enhance your inner animal desires? Sets often include a how-to book, so we can skip the guesswork and go straight to the Pleasureland.  

And when we become comfortable with anal plugs, there are some higher-tech anal toys that can even simulate rimming and have a remote control for maximum comfort.  

 

Anal Dildos and Vibrators 

Just like butt plugs, anal dildos and vibrators come in any shape and size you can wish for. Usually, we want to start with smaller sizes and then increase as we get the hang of it. According to a 2018 study, as many as 18% of straight men use dildos for masturbatory pleasure. Depending on the taste, we can choose a smooth or textured dildo, soft and flexible, or a hard dildo, realistic-looking or a beaded one — options are endless. You can even go to sites like Dragons Dildo (https://www.dragonsdildo.co.uk) and live out your fantasy role play with dildos which are focused on dragons, aliens, monsters and much more!

 

Sex Dolls 

Maybe it sounds a bit cliche, but sex dolls really are one of the best toys for men. There is an incredible variety of really authentic sex dolls available to suit every man’s taste, predilection and fantasy. High-quality silicone can make the dolls feel very skin-like, and the manufacturers can even customize the doll to create the partner we’ve always dreamed of. These can be found at a wide range of price points too, so if you're unsure about committing to a state-of-the-art doll you can always try out one that’s more justifiable in your budget and see if it is enjoyable. Before you purchase, make sure that these are body-safe and there are specific instructions on how to maintain them. Hxdoll provides a wide selection of sex dolls for men.

 

Conclusion 

Nowadays, there are plenty of sex toys specially designed for penis owners, including cock rings, a strokers and masturbators, as well as different prostate and anal toys. Some of these are manually operated, others are mechanical, but any one of them can enhance our sex play, whether we are rolling solo or partnering up. More sophisticated sex toys can be a bit on the pricier side, however, we also can find fun sex toys for under 10 bucks. 

To sum up, there are many interesting and beginner-friendly ways to give your sex life a hand. You can start from the beginning of our list and have fun with every category until you find the one that fits you best.