Advice On How To Be A Good Parent For Dads
Different social media platforms are awash with stories of kids (some of them grownups) who talk all kinds of stories about how their dads failed to fulfill their father obligations. Concerned by the high number of such stories, we decided to pen this article which shares with all fathers’ incredible tips on how they can become better dads to their children. The tips covered in this piece are not exhaustive, for more you can see this site.
Protect your kids
One of the most important roles of being a father is being a protector. When children see their father, they see a protector. As such, you need to ensure that you are one. When talking about being a protector, we are not just talking about the hard stuff i.e. protecting your kid from bullies at school and other stuff like that, no. You can show that you are always a protector by teaching them good safety habits such as using your seatbelt. You can also do so financially (financial protection) by ensuring that your kids get all they need as they grow up from food, school fees money to a stable home.
Share your time with them
As they grow up, children notice differences between their lives and those of their fellows. If you are an absent father, your kids regardless of how young they are will quickly notice this and they will resent you for being an absent father. To ensure that your kids see you as a dependable father, you need to share your time with them. Make some time after work everyday to play with them, read them books or just let them tell you their stories. On weekends, make time to take them out to the nearest mall, movie house, fire department, museum or playground. By just being by their side, you develop a strong bond that will last forever.
Show affection
Everyone wants to be loved more so the young fellows. Make sure that you always express your love to your children. There are different ways in which you can show your love to your children. Spending time with them is one such way. Giving them money so that they can buy whatever they want is one such way and even giving your kids complements and hugs when they do certain stuff goes a long way in showing your love to them.
Play with them
If there is one thing kids love, it's to play. As a good father, therefore, you need to join your kids in doing what they love most. During those times that you have much time to spare on your hands, you can go play with them outside of the house or take them to the playground for a game of soccer or baseball. However, if you don’t have much time or you are only free during nighttime, you can play some online games with them, kid-friendly online games though.